A Time to Destroy (and Celebrate!)

FireworksHappy Independence Day!  Here in the U.S.A. we celebrate our freedom and patriotism on this day.  Fireworks will be on the agenda tonight just about everywhere.  In some places you can see multiple fireworks shows just standing in one spot!

It’s reminiscent of the words in our national anthem, “the rockets’ red glare, the bombs bursting in air” which speak of the destruction and sacrifice that had to happen to win the freedom we celebrate today.  And it’s very much like the Law of Sacrifice, which says that you have to give up something of value in order to obtain something of even greater value.

It’s in this spirit that I say the following: destruction can be a good thing. Often we automatically think of destroying something as a  bad thing and we strive hard not to do it or let it happen.  Yet, we can get stuck if we stubbornly cling to what we have.  Sometimes you have to be willing to let go of something you have, in order to get something even better.  On a small scale, that might mean cleaning out a closet or an attic and letting some old treasures find a new home.  It might mean tearing down a wall in order to make a great new space in your home.  It might mean taking down a dilapidated building to make room for a shining new business or living structure.  It might mean repealing old laws that no longer serve us, in order to allow new, better policies to prevail.  It could even mean the end of a relationship that is not working.

More than anything, though, it’s about how you think. You have to be willing to let go of your old thought patterns in order to build new ones that serve you better.  When you are working on building a new good habit for yourself, you will have to do some demolition of old thought patterns and habits in the process.  Be watching for that moment of resistance when you realize you are going to have to let go of something you thought at one time was absolutely necessary.  It may be a scary or even painful process, but in the end you will have something to celebrate.  And then, maybe there will be fireworks!

 

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